As a summer associate, you’re stepping into the dual world of proving yourself through high-quality work and forming meaningful relationships with colleagues. Striking the right balance between these priorities can be tricky—especially when social events and long hours collide. Making thoughtful judgment calls in these situations can set you apart and lay the foundation for a successful career in Big Law. We can help you navigate.
Prioritize Work, But Don’t Underestimate the Power of Relationships
Your primary role as a summer associate is to demonstrate your ability to deliver high-quality work. Assignments are a test of your skills, work ethic, and how well you can thrive in a fast-paced environment. However, Big Law isn’t just about what’s on paper—it’s about people. Social events give you the opportunity to build relationships, connect with colleagues, and show your personality. The key is finding a balance where neither your work nor your participation in firm culture suffers.
Making Judgment Calls: Work Comes First
When faced with competing priorities, the golden rule is simple: work comes first. Before attending an event or social gathering, ensure your assignments are on track. If you’re behind on a project or close to a deadline, communicate proactively. Let the assigning attorney know your status and that you’re working hard to meet expectations. Missing an event to prioritize your workload shows maturity and responsibility, which partners and senior attorneys will respect.
However, keep in mind that not every event is optional. Firms organize these gatherings for a reason—they want to assess whether you fit into the culture and can build rapport with colleagues. If you’re torn between finishing work and attending a key event, try to manage your time to accommodate both. For example, request an extension if possible or work extra hours earlier in the week to free up time.
When faced with competing priorities, the golden rule is simple: work comes first.
Be Mindful of Alcohol Consumption
When attending social events, there’s often an unspoken pressure to blend in, especially if everyone around you is drinking. However, it’s perfectly okay not to drink, and you don’t need to have any excuse for that. Prioritizing your comfort and professionalism is what truly matters.
If you do choose to drink, remember that these events are still part of the interview process. Drinking excessively can harm the impression you leave behind, even if you’ve completed your work flawlessly.
The best approach is to set personal limits before you arrive. For instance, you can nurse one drink over the course of the event or alternate with water. This ensures you remain professional, sharp, and fully aware of how your actions might be perceived.
The Importance of Networking at Events
While work will always take precedence, social events are where you can forge personal connections that enhance your summer experience and even shape your future career. Use these gatherings to engage with partners, associates, and fellow summer associates in a meaningful way. Ask thoughtful questions about their practice areas, experiences at the firm, or advice for succeeding in Big Law.
Be authentic—show genuine curiosity and interest. These informal conversations can help decision-makers remember you positively when it’s time to make permanent offers.
Balancing Work and Social Obligations
Here are some practical tips to help you navigate this balance:
- Plan Your Schedule: If you know about events in advance, plan your work accordingly. Stay ahead on assignments so you can attend without feeling overwhelmed.
- Set Boundaries: If work demands are high, attend events briefly to show your face, network, and then excuse yourself professionally.
- Communicate Proactively: If you’re unable to attend due to workload, inform the event organizers or your team ahead of time to demonstrate courtesy and responsibility.
- Stay Professional at All Times: Remember that even at casual events, you’re being evaluated. Be respectful, composed, and attentive to others.
The Long-Term Impact
Your ability to balance work and social obligations during your summer associate program can have a lasting impact.
Successfully navigating these challenges shows that you’re not only capable of doing the job but also someone others want to work with. Relationships formed in the office or at events can lead to mentorship opportunities, future collaboration, and career growth.
By prioritizing your assignments while still engaging with firm culture, you’ll leave behind a positive, well-rounded impression—one that earns respect, trust, and ultimately, an offer.
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